Cave Cay

After leaving Cambridge Cay we headed further South to Cave Cay Marina.  It has been over 6 weeks since we’ve been at a dock.  While we have LOVED being at anchor or moored, it will be nice to be hooked up to electric and give our generator a break.  It will also be nice to be able to simply walk Charlie off the boat without going on a dingy ride to shore.  Cave Cay was highly recommended by Greg and Lisa, and we now know why.  It is a hidden gem. Tucked into a protected basin, the docks are well kept and floating.  Shark, the name of the island’s attendant/dock master, is as kind and genuine as they come.  The owner of this small paradise had plans to develop it.  Over the years the project’s direction changed somewhat and the island shows signs of various undertakings left mid-way through completion. 


Rob and Juliet were also staying here a few days.  After Shark helped us all get settled into our slips, he told us all about the island and welcomed us to help ourselves to the “garden” they had nearby.  Juliet and I could hardly wait to check it out…turns out the “garden” is more like a tiny farm.  I almost cried as I took in the site of rows of tomato plants heavy with bright red fruit, cucumbers and even a couple small watermelons.  We found sweet potatoes peeking up from under the sandy soil and began to dig…I lost count of the number we harvested.  There was an entire row of banana trees, with hanging “hands” of a tiny variety.  A worker offered us some papayas he had picked for some guests who no longer wanted them…YES please.  He said he got them from the trees over by “the blue building”.  Here is where having a friend who grew up in California comes in handy.  I had no idea what a papaya plant even looked like, but Juliet immediately said, “we’re gonna need our boat hook”.  Before I knew it, we’d dropped off our harvest, grabbed a bag and a boat hook and headed out in search of the “blue building”.  There they were, tall skinny trees with bright yellow fruit hanging at the tippy top, nestled against a blue building.  So, apparently ripe papayas will explode open if they fall to the ground….cue me standing below the fruit with my bag open in a fireman’s net pose, while Juliet wielded her boat pole and knocked them down.  Best day ever!  To fully grasp how magical this garden adventure was you need to know that at 3 months into our Bahama journey, most of the fresh produce we’d brought from the states had been consumed.  While staples, frozen veggies/fruit and dry goods abound, we were at the point in our trip where we supplement with fresh produce from local stores.  Local stores are only found on a few islands, they are small, not always well stocked and always expensive.   Sweet potatoes, cut and tossed in olive oil with salt/pepper and baked for 20 min…YES PLEASE!

We have thoroughly enjoyed traveling with Rob and Juliet, so when we realized they had an anniversary while here, we decided to surprise them with a special breakfast.  We broke out the Bloody Mary fixns, Scott made French toast using the coconut bread from Loraine’s, and finally got to use the pork sausage our son gave us from a farm in Virginia.

On our last day here, we walked to the end of the dusty runway to find the “shell beach”.  It did not disappoint.  There was so much untouched beauty as the sound side crashed against the rocks on one side and the Bank sloshed rhythmically on the other.  Our pockets were full of treasures by the time we left.  Amazing assortment of all manner of shells…but leave it to me to find the weird thing that I LOVE, and Scott hopes I forget and leave behind.  It was the bleached-out carapace of a crab, nearby were the claws…I’ve not seen a crab like this before.  I think it is super cool (Scott says it is creepy).  I’ve researched it, I think it is a type of box crab.

Back to Staniel Cay!  Our daughter would be arriving to visit for a week, and she flies into a small airport here.  I was excited to share the things we’ve enjoyed while here!  We got to Staniel a few days early to prep for her arrival.  Staniel’s mail boat usually arrives on Thursdays, so we planned to visit the Blue Store and the Pink Store to bump up our provisions. We also had to stop at the local “liquormat”, literally a laundry mat that sells beer/wine/liquor, there is no such thing as too much red wine when Ashley visits.

Staniel is a good place to have guests fly into…you can enjoy adult beverages at the “yacht club/bar” while waiting and then enjoy a lunch before heading back to the boat.  It would be a bit overcast for the start of her visit, but that didn’t seem to matter.  First stop, visit the nurse sharks gathering near the dock looking for easy handouts from the fish cleaning station nearby.  Note: Ashley is NOT a shark fan (thanks to her brother for introducing her to Jaws much much too early in her formative years) 

I could NOT have asked for a better visit with Ashley.  Just having concentrated time with her was a treasure, but then to be able to share this remarkable life with her was the best. 

Sadly, her time with us came to an end and we ventured back to Staniel once again.  It was time to start contemplating returning to the states.  We have loved our time here and all the places and people, but we are sorely missing our grandgirls and our Cape Charles community.

After getting a quick catch up with Rob and Juliet as they welcomed their next guest at Staniel, we headed South once again.  We anchored just past Black point in a place called Jacks Bay/White point Bay.  This is another pristine beach and sandy bottom anchorage.  We anchored just off from several coral heads that we would snorkel the next day.  We have found that each beach we visit seems to have a different type of sand.  The beach here has a pebbly, course sort of sand.  Perhaps because each grain was heavy, but for some reason this sand settled quickly when disturbed.  Usually near the shore, where waves roll in, the sand kicks up and there is a bit of murkiness.  But here it is different…at this beach the sand seemed magical. The water was crystal clear even as I sat at the shore.  I would lift a handful of sand under the water and it would drizzle back down as if I had dropped small beads.  The clear water was also just the right depth for swimming lazy laps and floating on your back, ears submerged eyes closed, and mentally drifting away. This was also the only place where knocking the sand off before entering the boat was even possible.  I know I have said this about a lot of beaches on this trip…but THIS ONE is my #1 pick if I had to pick a favorite beach.

We had a great day of snorkeling.  Found the largest ray we’ve ever seen…just chilling below a thin dusting of sand, his eyes protruding up from the seafloor looking like an angry Batman peering out from under a fog bank…very eerie.

Next up was a quick day trip over to Oven Rock.  We’d heard about a cave on this island that was actually a good deep water scuba diving location (we are SO not this level), but I was determined to snorkel there at least.  It was an easy anchorage, and we took the dinghy to shore armed with coordinates, good hiking shoes and our snorkel masks.  Well worth the effort!  It was the craziest thing…there in the middle of the jungle like landscape was a cave entrance down a rocky slope.  Once inside it just took away your breath.  Stalactites hung in pillars, columns and curtains over a large pool.  The cold water was oddly both crystal clear, yet murky.  You could still easily see stalagmites reaching up from the depths as if trying to escape the grasp of the lake.  Flashlights were recommended and we quickly learned why.  The cave was set deep, and sunlight was not significant.  The roof of the cave was dotted with tiny black bats patiently waiting for dusk to arrive for their nightly insect hunting.  At first, I was a bit anxious about snorkeling, did I mention it was kind of murky creepy?  There was no life here beyond the bats…the depths of the water revealed only a ghostly garden of statue like formations.  After exploring as far as we dared (apparently you can hire a guide to take you underwater further, but NOT a bucket list for me) we dried off and headed back to the boat.

  This is the first time we’ve anchored Miller Time for just a short stop, usually we are at a location for at least overnight, so it was weird to be moving the dinghy on and off after just a few hours.  We wanted to get underway to avoid some more wind.  We headed North again toward Warderick Wells and what we THOUGHT would be our next stops further North. The winds have been kicking and we find ourselves spending a lot of time planning our moves based on finding good hiding places.  March has definitely roared in like a lion…hoping it goes out like a lamb. 


We arrived a day early to Warderick.  Warderick Wells is the headquarters to the Exuma Land and Sea Park and an iconic blue horseshoe shaped mooring field.  We were able to get a mooring ball late afternoon just before the winds cranked back up.  This is such a unique mooring field.  We could literally swim to shore or sand bar if we wanted, and at low tide several kids for a nearby sailboat did just that.  Just a few yards from our stern are the parks dinghy mooring balls marking a large reef for snorkeling. By mid-morning we were joining Greg and Lisa on another snorkel adventure!  The winds were brisk, but once you are in the water it’s not bad.  There was so much to see I almost didn’t notice the large shark as it gracefully swam below me.  When I did, I was mesmerized and slightly panicked…this was not the docile nurse shark we are accustomed to seeing.  This was a reef shark.  Reef sharks are not known for being aggressive toward humans and are not really to be feared…I knew this, but I still struggled with the combined desire to observe it while also fleeing.  He harmlessly swam away, but for the remainder of the snorkel, I kept an eye on the perimeter.   Scott had gotten back into the dinghy, he was cold, but I continued to float around with Greg and Lisa for a bit…. that is until our little reef shark made a reappearance.  He seemed rather curious and made a few passes, not too close of course…after the third time I saw him, I decided he could have the reef to himself for a bit. (Scott always jokes that it takes me so long to get my fins off once at the boarding ladder, that if there were ever a shark, he’d need to get in first so someone would be around to “tell the story” …let’s just say THIS time I managed to get my fins off in a very efficient manner.)   



Originally the plan was to stay a few days then head North…well, the winds had a different plan.  Once we realized we’d be delayed a bit, we decided to head back South once more.  We needed a bit of a break from the wind and time to rethink our plans.  We decided to venture back to one of favorite stops, Cave Cay Marina.  After a blustery and lumpy 7 hour run from Warderick, we pulled into the marina and quickly set about clearing all layers of salt from Miller Time.  After days rushing winds, the “Slap slap slap” of the dinghy tethered behind the boat and constant bobbing, the calm of a slip at a dock was very welcome.  I was shocked Scott decided to come to Cave Cay.  It seemed counterproductive to head South when the goal is to get North, but it was a good call.  We both needed to take a beat.  In our effort to get positioned North for a crossing, we were getting frustrated navigating wind events and travel times.  Peering endlessly at Windy (an app we use to track winds and waves), plotting and replotting our routes and making plans A, B & C had led to unneeded stress.  Cave Cay delivered as expected.  In the refuge of the calm marina, we ran our AC, rinsed every salt covered surface in and on the boat, ran laundry, and got caught up on some projects. 

An added benefit was getting to visit the Cave Cay “garden”.  I relished walking in the field, digging up sweet potatoes, picking tomatoes and cutting down bananas.  I even revisited the papaya tree Juliet and I found last visit.  My heart was so happy with my new produce collection.  I learned there were Mulberry bushes nearby, I had seen them before, but did not know what they were (and Scott discourages me from eating things on our walks even if they DO look edible HAHA).  Armed with new knowledge of what they were I set out with my little bucket.  They are similar to blackberries, bit milder I think, but also VERY messy to pick.  I LOVED hunting the branches for the plump black berries. 

Back on Miller Time it was baking day!  With the AC flowing I had no worries heating up the galley with baking projects.  Our provisions are dwindling, so time to start making our own goodies.  Time to let the flour flow!  Snickerdoodles, sandwich bread and pizza dough were  soon in various stages of production.  My small harvest of mulberries would morph into yummy cobblers.

It was time to once again head North, this time with a much more relaxed mindset.  Before leaving we gifted Shark(the wonderful keeper of the cay) with some of our cookies.  He was so sweet and several times mentioned how much he enjoyed them with his coffee. Scott had asked Shark if he had some of a particular kind of screw he needed to finish his project…Shark not only found just the right ones, when we asked if we could pay him for them he refused and said the cookies were payment. 

Funny, as I write this post, I realize it is ending the same as it began…at Cave Cay.   I certainly did not see that coming.  I suppose that is a good example of how boat life works.  A boating friend once told me she never says she has “plans”, instead she says she has “intentions”…that sounds wise.

I intend to get North, I intend to cross back to the states, and I intend to eek out all the joy between here and there.

Course Correcting

In boating, as in all of our lives, plans sometimes shift due to circumstances beyond our control.  Course correcting is not something I usually handle well…but this time is different.  This time, our decision to change our plans is not based on contrary circumstances, rather just the opposite.  As we sat in the peace filled anchorage of Rudder Cay the evening before leaving for Little Bay, we had time to reflect on our voyage thus far and consider our plans going forward.

 Since leaving Great Harbor in January we have been working our way through the Southern Bahamas/Exumas intent with getting to the Ragged Islands.  The Raggeds are a virtually undeveloped chain of cays(islands) South of the Exumas.  It is known for its beauty and remote living. Visitors there need to be prepared to be self-sufficient in all things.  We knew the less visited islands would be worth the challenge and had made preparations to spend a week exploring there once we had finished with our Exuma adventures.  That evening we talked about all we enjoyed and hoped to do or see while in the Bahamas.  Snorkeling, paddling, fishing, exploring, finding unique places out of the fray, meeting people, just being together as we journeyed along, were all on the list.  That is when we we took a deep breath and declared a course correction.  We realized all the things that mattered to us where right where we were.  The drive to go further was replaced with renewed passion to embrace and discover all the wonderful things here in the Exuma Islands.  We picked up anchor in the morning at peace with our new mindset and new waypoints.

  We left a day early knowing a blow(bit of weather) was on the way and we’d need to be in a protected place within the next day.  Well, new lesson…predicted wave height and frequency for the Sound(the deeper water on the East side of the Bahamas) is not too reliable. We found ourselves bouncing around in about 5-6ft waves at uncomfortable intervals.  It was not an unsafe sea state, but the amount of rattling and banging around of our cabinet and fridge contents was concerning.  Good thing it was a very short run.  When we came through the Dothan Cut to the Bank side(the vast shallower West side of the islands) it was as if someone turned off the wave machine. 

When we arrived back at Little Bay it was good to see some familiar faces, Pam and George (Nordhavn named Tango) whom we met at Great Harbor.   After a quick catch up with them on the beach, we planned to meet for sundowners the next day.  Our first day back at Little Bay we headed out to find some trails we had yet to explore.  A short walk across the island we found a path down to the Sound side’s rocky shore and a huge cave.

While Scott was “in class”, I scoured the rocky shoreline in my kayak. 

By late afternoon, we packed up some adult beverages and headed to shore to meet up with Pam and George.  They had extended the sundowner invite to their friends, Noelle and Kevin nearby aboard another Nordhvn, N76.  It was great getting to know Pam and George better and meeting Kevin and Noelle.  Just as we set up our towels and chairs a shower passed over us.  We were soaked, but not deterred.  We were already pretty sandy and wet from getting to the beach, and we were rewarded with a faint rainbow, so we continued our conversations.  Pam made some tasty smoked salmon quiche bites to share and introduced us to Sly Juice.  They had discovered this concoction at another location and sheshe’d brought pitcher to share.  It has gin, coconut water and I think condensed milk…very creamy, very coconutty, and indeed “sly” as you have no idea how much alcohol you may be partaking in.  Perhaps it was the Sly Juice, Pam’s yummy quiche or the great company and conversation…but eventually we sat through 3 showers and the sunsetting before we headed back to our boats!  Charlie was sound asleep soon after our return.(not sure if this was due to Noelle playing fetch with him a lot, or that he MAY have gotten into an unattended cup of Sly Juice)

Encouraged by Keven and Noelle’s lobstering success in the area, we loaded our gear into the dinghy and set out to catch dinner!  We spent all day snorkeling coral heads, sea walls and ridges.  We did not find lobster, but it was amazing!  I hovered by a sea turtle, and saw all kinds of fish and coral.  We quickly discovered we had been overlooking some prime snorkeling.  We now know how to spot a coral head, drop anchor in a sandy spot nearby, and hop in to investigate.   As if the day could not get any better…Kevin and Noelle invited all of us to their boat to share their lobster haul. (Yes, they are #lobsteringgoals)  As we sat in the cockpit area of their lovey home( a Nordhavn76), they grilled and sautéed lobster for us complete with drawn butter!  Pam brough her phenomenal cookies(seriously, I’d marry her for them if she wasn’t already taken by George) and we contributed bread pudding muffins(made with Lorainne’s mom’s famous cinnamon raisin bread and a new “go to” recipe for me).  Better than all that yummy food were the new friendships we found.  While there are so so many great things about a boating lifestyle, the greatest treasure continues to be the folks you meet.

Scott successfully finished his class and passed his exam!  He is now a marine electrical ABYC advisor. I know he is extra happy to be free from studies for a while.  We made one last visit to the Black Point Settlement before leaving Little Bay.  We were thrilled to see the massive steel hulled mail boat at the local dock.  That means after lunch we would find restocked general stores! First, lunch at Loraines! We enjoyed cold drinks as we waited for our cracked conch and cracked lobster burgers and fries. While Scott responsibly drank his local beer, I struggled to take my time drinking the “special of the day”.  My yummy drink contained 4 types of rum and went down way too easily.  In no time at all I had that “ just consumed too much tropical alcohol” glow haha.

Our next stop would be a mooring ball a Cambridge Cay.  Cambridge is part of the Exuma land & Sea Park.  Our friends, Greg and Lisa (Privateer), volunteer as hosts here.  They greet boats as they arrive, hand out information/map with hike/snorkel hot spots noted, and help maintain the trails.  Not long after we secured our mooring spot, they invited us to join them for some snorkeling.  We learned that if Lisa ever texts us anything that begins with “Hey, do you want to….” to quickly reply “YES, ready when you are!”   Seriously, so thankful for their local knowledge and gracious guidance.  Thanks to their invites, we had a spectacular few days before the weather got iffy.  Cambridge exploring: small plane wreck, extensive reef, “aquarium reef” aptly named for ALL the fish, Rocky Dundas(cool caves along a rocky shoreline with coral reefs), a staggering reef of nothing but huge Stag Horn coral, our first “drift dive”(just snorkeling over an extensive reef while holding lines of the dinghy and floating over it), picnic at Osprey Point, and hiking the Ridge and Honeymoon trails. 


While on one of our early morning beach visits with Charlie, we found a small hummingbird nest with two tiny eggs!  Later in the week, when the winds picked up, we searched for it again.  It seemed to be in a precarious location, on a very sinewy pine bough hanging over the water’s edge.  We were thrilled to see it was not only safe, but momma was sitting on her eggs.  As the branch bounced erratically in the wind, that momma sat there like a BOSS and kept her little ones in place.

This week, my thoughts keep going back to that little momma bird. She sat confidently, securely and steadfast upon her nest, her little world tucked just below her wings.  The branch thrashed about like a rickety amusement park ride.  There was little she could do as the wind abused the spindly bough on the salty shore…but the thing she could do, she did.  She held on.

Sometimes the “bough” we find ourselves on in life feels out of control…may we all hold on like a hummingbird!

A Dog’s Life

Charlie’s top tips on how to live your best life aboard Miller Time:

#1 perfect your napping skills

It is paramount to know where the best places/positions are for random or day long napping. Whether the boat is underway in heavy seas, idly floating at anchor or rolling with waves on a mooring ball, you need to know how to chill. I have found that proximity to my people is helpful. My nap spots tend to be on/near them or at least where I can see them. Oh, and when they are away from the boat (if for SOME CRAZY reason they decided to not include you in their adventure), be sure to be found napping in their favorite chair the entire time so when they return, they feel guilty.

#2 resist the piddle pad

Even though you are trained and have successfully used the piddle pad (the patch of artificial grass upon which I am expected to relieve myself when we are not able to get to shore), try to not parktake in such matters. I have found that if you refuse to use the piddle patch, they will eventually take you on a fun dinghy ride to a nice beach twice a day! (note: your people will deal with your poop, but whatever you do, don’t dig anywhere you see them digging. They are not playing hide the poop for fun, learned that one the hard way. You are welcome)

#3 protect your boat

This is perhaps the most challenging of all boat life chores. Find a good place to keep tabs on all the things that move(boats/people/airplane/wind/waves) and be sure to bark and give chase when possible. I have found the best place for this is on the swim platform…from here you get unobstructed views, lots of fresh air and you can make sure the dinghy does not go anywhere without you.

#4 fish alert

When your people have sticks, with lines and frilly things on them, dragging behind the boat, they get really excited when there is a whirring noise…so when you hear it, be sure to bark and run around like a nut so they know to go see what is going on. Be careful because sometimes this results in a big floppy thing coming onto the boat deck and your owners yelling at you to stay away, even though you only want to smell it.

#5 paddle boarding

This is one of my favorite things to do with my dad, but there are rules. Always hurry and get on as soon as you see the board in the water, in case they were thinking of not inviting you. Find the spot close to the middle of the board, or the edge, actually lay down wherever you want…your people will figure out how to keep you balanced and thank you later for the core exercise.(maybe) Be sure to relax…I can attest to the fact that they will NOT want your help paddling and they don’t want you chasing fish or birds either. I guess there is such a thing as too much excitement.

#6 dinghy rides are LIFE

Getting the command “board” and getting to go in the dinghy means you get to stay with your people!  A dinghy ride means you will go to a beach, on a hike or even on another boat…So NEVER miss a chance to get in the dinghy, even if they don’t plan on you joining them.   While underway, the dinghy bow is the best spot for great views and smells…but sometimes you have to share it with your people.  I recently learned a new game which I recommend, “bubble wave eating”.  When the dinghy is going fast there are lots of bubbles on top of the waves it makes….so be sure to lean waaaaayyy over the side and bite them.   You may need to bark while you do it, but be careful, those “bubble waves”  can slap you in the face sometimes.  Also, falling in is a concern so be sure your people are holding onto your harness while you ignore them telling you to stop.  GREAT FUN!  When the dinghy gets near shore, try to be the first one off.  This is important…not sure why, but trust me, being the first off is fun.  It is imperative to be sure you DO NOT jump too soon, or you will be swimming to shore.  I listen for the sound of my people raising the dinghy engine, then wiggle myself up over the edge and get perched for my dismount.

#7 pills

If like me, you need to take some pills for your health, here are my techniques.  If they wrap it in a yummy substance, turn your head as if they are offering you poison.  When you hear them getting the pill from the container, quickly lay down and roll on your back.  This makes it more challenging when they pry your mouth open to jab it down your throat.  If they catch you still sitting up, and proceed to place the pill down your throat, use your tongue like a world fencing champion and make them work to get the pill past it. Follow either of these techniques up with a downcast look and they will give you a treat so you will stop being pitiful.

#8 spa day

After beach time, expect to be stopped at the swim platform for a rinse down (sometimes with shampoo even).  Dad will towel dry you, this is the important part.  Be sure to sit like a good boy and he will wrap you like little red riding hood, look into your eyes and say nice things to you while he rubs your paws and tummy with the towel. You may be tempted to take the towel and play with it, but he won’t appreciate that at all.  Eventually you will need to endure “the clippers”.  I am not a fan, but I have found giving in to the event is better for all involved.  Sometimes it is easier to just sit like a good boy while he trims my hair and nails, but sometimes it is fun to let yourself go limp, so they must work a bit harder. Note: anytime they ask you if you want to go for a walk or get a bath lay down and roll over, they love it.

#9 bedtime

 I have a comfy spot in the galley and dad gives me a cookie every night…but if you ever want to have some snuggle time and sleep with your people…be sure to bark loudly and frequently…if you add a little whimper dad will come get you sooner (mom rarely comes to get you).

#10 life’s a beach

Beaches are where you get your wiggles out.  Run as fast, far and frequently as possible when on a beach.  Be sure to randomly dig for no reason, preferably right near your people just after they applied sun lotion.  Also, if they lay down a towel, that is your cue to go sit on it and get it ready for them by scrunching it up and filling it with sand.  My breeder said I was a Portuguese waterdog, but my people feel certain I am actually a Portuguese beach dog or wader dog.  After all that hard work, don’t forget to rest…just be sure you lay down as close to your people as possible at all times.

I’ve heard folks ask my people if I like being a boat dog.  If I could answer, I would certainly say “YES”…but not because I like the boat.  I mean, the boat is nice, but I also REALLY like my big porch back home.  What I DO like, actually LOVE, about being a boat dog is being with my people. 

My advice for living your best life anywhere:  

Make sure you are with your people.  Find the people who love you, the people who care for you, the people who will deal with the poopy times and the tail wagging good times.  Find the people you want to adventure with and make them your pack!